Hello there! I am trying to maintain a presence on sex-positive sites with a Christian orientation to share our story and give and receive encouragement. My wife Stephanie and I just went through a long period of sexual decline, almost to the point of a dead bedroom. She is 50, and 4 years post-menopausal, and I am 45. Things began to turn around last August. First, we started having scheduled sex twice a week. Second, we tried this unconventional therapy with pig pheromones that have increased her libido. And third, we finally got Stephanie's hormones checked, and started hormone therapy on March 13th. She takes oral progesterone and a topical estrogen. As a result of these changes, she is horny every day. This week, we broke a record with 6 sexual encounters. She also has vaginismus (we have not had PIV in 4 years), or pelvic floor disorder, but she started using dilators, and is already up to size 4 out of 8. She is almost ready to move up to size 5. So given our challenges, that which might be considered vanilla by people on this progressive site (and I say that in a complimentary way), is considered exotic to us. Just the thought of having PIV again is very, very exciting to us.As far as polyamory or swinging go, we are cool with those things, but we don't see ourselves involved in that anytime in the near future. Under perfect conditions, I am sure my wife would be open minded about it. We are both Christians but believe strongly in Christian freedom and enjoying the gift of sex and even sharing with others, under the right conditions. It would be cool if there could have a new discussion thread dealing with sexual difficulties like hormone issues or dead bedrooms. But feel free to give me a private message if you would like to discuss things like this. I am also on Songs of the Believers, Reddit, Twitter, and The Garden Discord under the name "Brian O'Kane." Thank you!!