One thing I think about a lot in regards to finding a wife is "How can I ask how strict she is on issues of non-monogamy without sounding like a selfish polygamous wife recruiter." It may happen that I find a girl SO amazing that I would never ever dream of anyone but her the rest of my life. But I highly doubt I'm a dynamic enough person for her to feel the same and I think it's certainly a bad risk to take to marry someone who you know is adamantly monogamous. Compounding the awkward factor is I need to marry a Christian and wow I have a needle in a haystack chance of finding an open minded soul mate.
Thoughts?
A piece of advice I read the other day said something along the lines of remember you are looking for a whole person not just someone who aligns with certain bits and pieces of yourself. One of the best and I suppose worst parts of dating is getting to know the other person and learning where your interests opinions and beliefs intertwine. It may take a thousand trys or it might take just one.
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